I Love You

They are three simple words, yet they are so powerful!  How often do you say them?  I say them to my husband before one of us leave the house, any time we talk on the phone & then before bed in the evening.  I say them to my parents any time we talk on the phone.  I tell my friends (probably not often enough) when we’re on the phone as well.

Where I sit in my office, I hear many, many, many phone conversations during the day.  I’m always amazed at the lack of spouses/significant others not telling the other that they love them while on the phone.  I’m even more amazed when parents talk to their children (grown or not) and don’t tell them.  I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard a conversation go like this…

“I gotta go, I’m on deadline.”  “I really gotta go.”  “Please call me tonight, I have to get off the phone.”  20 minutes later there is an argument followed with, “Will you just let me get off the phone?  I really have to go!”  followed with, “If you’re going to be ugly about it, I’m going to hang up the phone!”  “I’m hanging up now….I’m hanging up now….I’m hanging up now….”  SLAM

The phone is slammed down and not once during the 45 minute phone call did the caller (who I know is the child) hear that they are loved.

So very, very sad.

Growing up I never heard my dad tell me he loved me.  I even went through counseling b/c I didn’t think my dad loved me.  I would be told, “well you know he loves you, he just doesn’t know how to say it.”  Did he not know how to say it b/c it wasn’t said often enough in his household?  I was 21 years old the first time he told me that he loves me.  I now make sure that I always say it any time we talk, or see each other, and he repeats it back.  It’s true, he’s always loved me, but sometimes I just need to hear it.

So, get off the computer, and tell your friends and family that you love them.

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8 Comments »

  1. 1
    eof737 Says:

    Those three words, so much power… If only we’d remember, it would save many years of anguish. Beautiful post and great advice! 🙂
    Eliz

  2. 3
    dePressed Says:

    Thanks for the reminder – we all need this every once in a while – I tell everyone that means something to me that I love them everytime I say goodbye or leave – just the way I’m built or I get it from my grandmother! Great post.

    • 4

      You’re welcome and thank you. Ever find that you miss it when you don’t say it, or hear it? My husband will get distracted every now & then & forget to say it before he leaves. I then call him & ask what’s up. haha

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  4. Yes, they’re the three most powerful words in the world, I believe. They can mend or break a heart, or make or break a life. My husband and I say “I love you” to each other all the time, but my folks and I don’t. I feel uncomfortable telling them I love them, even though I do. I know they feel uncomfortable telling me, too. In our family, I guess it’s reserved for major, life-changing events, like a serious illness. It’s sad, and I would like to change it, but at the same time, I’m thinking the status quo is good enough. There’s no animosity, anyways, just not a lot of affection.

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